As we approach the Thanksgiving Holiday I go into my reflective state – a yearly occurance. It seems that this year has been really difficult. My first husband – the father of my children- died this month. A very good friend just recently lost her son to brain cancer. Today I received an email from a woman who is looking for sponsors for a marathon she is running to raise awareness for Leukemia and to encourage people to donate bone marrow: her daughter died this year from this terrible disease. My step-granddaughter is recovering from surgery to combat epilpsy. All around me people are struggling with the effects of a difficult economy – losing jobs and homes, and along with those tangibles, they are losing hope and security and dignity.
Then I start to feel sorry for myself – real estate is not nearly so much fun as it used to be, funds are tight, buyers are scarce and scared. Sellers are frightened and worried. I'm getting old and will probably never get to retire! What a bleak world!
Then, just before I slip into a real funk, I shift my focus and look at the positives. With all it's political and budgetary issues, California is still the greatest place I can think of to live. My dog and my cats are great companions – to me and to each other. I am old, that is true, but HEALTHY!! My children are doing well and get along with each other and, thank goodness, with me. I am lucky to be doing a job that I love. My friends are plentiful and loyal. I have a car that runs, a roof over my head, clothes to wear and enough to eat. I am very lucky! And I know it.
So, no more funk – I'll focus on the positives, deal with the negatives and keep on keeping on. And please, you do the same.
Happy Thanksgiving!
Carol
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